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What Was Life Like in Ancient Rome?

by Danielle Strayer Last updated on September 15, 2025
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French People Arr. Rude Podcast Show Notes

S1, E20: Slaves, Plebs, and Patricians—Who Actually Ran the Empire?

In this episode of French People Arr. Rude, Sean and Brandon break down the rigid but sometimes surprising class hierarchy of Ancient Rome. The city was run by the rich, built by the enslaved, and sustained by millions of working-class citizens who rarely made it into history books. From gladiators earning freedom to emperors murdered by their guards, this episode reveals how power flowed (and backfired) through Roman society.


In this Article:

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  • What Was Life Like in Ancient Rome?
    • Ancient Rome Stereotypes
    • The Ancient Roman Time Period
    • Layers of the Roman Empire
  • Top Tours to Learn about Ancient Rome
  • Final Thoughts
  • Catch Up On Previous Episodes of French People Arr. Rude
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What Was Life Like in Ancient Rome?

If you think ancient Rome was all wine, orgies, and marble columns, you’re not wrong, but there’s far more to the story.

Ancient Rome Stereotypes

What do you think, True or False? Click the arrow to check if you’re right!

#1: All Romans wore togas.

True, but mostly adult men. Boys were given togas around age 13 to show they’d come of age.

#2: They were always in orgies.

Technically true, but only during major festivals. Public drunkenness and sexual freedom were expected during certain holidays, but it wasn’t an everyday thing. Mostly upper-class behavior.

#3: They ate grapes on couches while slaves fanned them

True, for some of the rich. Upper-class Romans dined while reclining and often had household slaves serving them.

#4: They fed Christians to lions.

Half true. Romans fed many people to lions—criminals, prisoners of war, and yes, Christians. But not just because they were Christian. It was about spectacle.

#5: Julius Caesar was the first emperor.

False. He was never an emperor, just a dictator. Augustus, his grandnephew, was the first official emperor.

#6: All Romans were white dudes.

False. Rome was an empire, not a city-state. Its citizens came from North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and beyond.

The Ancient Roman Time Period

Before diving into what life was like in the Roman Empire, here’s a little context about what else was happening in this period:

  • The Egyptian pyramids were already 2,500 years old.

  • Greek philosophy had peaked and passed.

  • Paganism was the dominant religion, with gods for wind, fire, grain, and just about everything.

  • Romans borrowed many gods directly from the Greeks and renamed them (e.g., Zeus = Jupiter).

  • Iron tools were common, but gunpowder wouldn’t reach Europe for another 1,300 years.

Layers of the Roman Empire

Roman society was a rigid hierarchy, but surprisingly fluid. Within those layers, there were… more layers. A slave could one day become a business owner, while an emperor might end up murdered by his own guards.

The Slave

The lowest rung in society, but not all slaves lived the same life.

gladiator battle in ancient rome
  • Enslavement often followed Roman conquest—entire towns were taken.

  • Some ran households or businesses. Others helped run the government.

  • The worst fate was working in the mines, which basically meant a death sentence.

  • Gladiators were often enslaved men.

  • Freedom was possible through skill, the death of a master, or formal manumission.

  • Once freed, some slaves became wealthy and even influential.

The Plebeian – Commoner

The backbone of Roman society and the group emperors feared most.

Plebeian in ancient rome
  • Plebeians were citizens: bakers, farmers, butchers, shoemakers, etc.

  • They lived fast, crowded, and dirty lives—mostly on the Aventine Hill.

  • This was the “bread and circuses” class—free food and entertainment kept them from revolting.

  • Jobs stayed in the family. If your dad was a butcher, you were too.

  • Keeping the plebs happy was essential to staying in power.

Patrician – Upper Class

Old money, old names, and major influence.

Terme di Caracalla (Baths of Caracalla)
Terme di Caracalla (Baths of Caracalla)
  • Patricians were born into elite families and often served as senators.

  • They wore togas, owned land, and held real power.

  • Julius Caesar had the name, but not the riches—so he joined the military to climb.

  • Military service was expected among young patrician men.

A Day in the Life of a Patrician, 2,000 Years Ago

  • Wake up with the sun. A slave dresses you and serves breakfast.

  • Greet your clients (people who depend on your patronage). Listen to their requests, buy their loyalty.

  • Hit the bathhouse for wrestling, hot steam rooms, cold plunges, gossip, books, and lunch.

  • Attend a theater show in the afternoon.

  • Party all evening: feast, drink, socialize.

  • Get helped home. Do it all again tomorrow.

Military – General

For many, the military was the only ticket out of poverty and the path to real power.

Bronze statue of Julius Caesar.
Julius Caesar
  • Generals held the loyalty of their armies and could rival emperors in power.

  • Julius Caesar conquered Gaul and returned a rich man.

  • Generals were rewarded with land, which they’d often gift to their army.

  • Vespasian, later an emperor, started as a general and earned public favor.

Emperors

Life at the top wasn’t always glamorous. Or long.

Caesar Augustus, The First Emperor of ancient rome
Caesar Augustus, The First Emperor
  • Must be from the patrician class (at least early on).

  • Augustus was the first emperor, ruling from 27 BCE to 14 CE

  • The next six emperors were from his family. Most were unstable, except Augustus.

  • Some came from humble origins—Septimius Severus (North African), Diocletian (Dalmatian peasant), Maximinus Thrax (barbarian background).

  • Early emperors lived in peace and luxury. The later ones were often assassinated.

  • Some ruled diligently. Others partied, schemed, and ignored governance.

  • Commodus marked the beginning of Rome’s decline.

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Final Thoughts

Ancient Rome wasn’t just emperors and marble statues—it was a city full of regular people trying to get through the day. From slaves working the mines to senators wining and dining at private banquets, the structure of Roman life still shapes our world. Want to dive deeper? These reads will help you explore Rome like a time-traveling local:

The Incredible History of Rome from Ancient Conquerors to La Dolce Vita

The 7 Most Accomplished Emperors of Ancient Rome

Who Were the Five Good Emperors and What Made Them so Great?

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